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Helen

Helen Hilgeman

b. March 23, 2018

Helen Werden Hilgeman, 93, died quietly and peacefully on Friday, March 23, 2018.

The daughter of Alice and Glenn Snell, Helen Alice Snell was born in Alexandria, NY and lived in Montreal, Canada, Skaneateles, NY and then moved out West, which was her dream as a young woman.

In Denver, CO, Helen met her first husband, Edward T Werden, Jr. of Mt. Vernon, NY, and they started their family. From Colorado, Ed and Helen moved to Middletown, NJ and then on to Crystal Lake, IL. Several years after the death of her husband Ed, Helen married Leander Hilgeman and they lived in Crystal Lake prior to moving to Woodstock, IL in 2014. Helen relocated to NJ in Dec 2015 to be closer to her family.

Helen loved raising her five children with Ed, traveling and truly enjoyed cooking for her family and loved ones. When she lived in Middletown, NJ she was very active in the First Presbyterian Church in Red Bank, NJ, along with bible study and women's groups wherever she lived. In Illinois she was active in the Evangelical Free Church of Crystal Lake, where she had many close friends, some of whom she traveled with to Israel.

Helen leaves us with the legacy of her sense of adventure, kind heartedness, colorful sense of humor, and wonderful memories which of all who knew her with hold dear forever. Her children all have warm memories of road trips with Mom, the comradery and laughs along the way, with frequent stops at McDonalds.

Helen was predeceased by her parents; her first husband of 47 years, Edward T. Werden, Jr.; daughter Alice, sons James and Philip and second husband, Leander "Lee" Hilgeman of Crystal Lake, IL.

Helen is survived by her daughter Judith Syms and son-in-law Raymond Syms, Middletown, NJ; son John Werden, Barnegat, NJ, and son Paul and daughter-in-law Vivienne Werden of Hubbardsville, NY; grandchildren Ryan Valese and his wife Jennifer of Neptune, NJ, Jeremiah Werden of Hubbardsville, NY, Kristina Werden, MI and Danielle Werden, CA; twin great-grandsons Anthony and Lucas Valese; her sister Carolyn Savage of PA, and nieces and nephews.

Visitation for Helen will be held on Saturday, April 7, 2018 from 9:00am until the time of her service at 11:00am at Davenport Family Funeral Home and Crematory, 419 E. Terra Cotta Ave., Crystal Lake. Inurnment to follow at Crystal Lake Memorial Park, Crystal Lake.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be given to The Great Commission Foundation, #0050882 Omar and Rose Sutherland, 100 Lake Hart Drive #3600, Orlando, FL 32832.

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Service Schedule

Past Services

Visitation

Saturday, April 7, 2018

9:00 - 11:00 am (Central time)

Davenport Family Funeral Home and Crematory

419 East Terra Cotta Avenue, Crystal Lake, IL 60014

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Memorial Service

Saturday, April 7, 2018

Starts at 11:00 am (Central time)

Davenport Family Funeral Home and Crematory

419 East Terra Cotta Avenue, Crystal Lake, IL 60014

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Inurnment

Saturday, April 7, 2018

Starts at 12:00 pm (Central time)

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