Hy Feldman, 82, died peacefully at JourneyCare Hospice in Barrington, surrounded by his family on October 11, 2014. Diagnosed with an aggressive form of lymphoma in spring 2013, he fought this unrelenting foe with a positive attitude and a sense of humor that was humbling to witness. He was born in Chicago, May 21, 1932 and resided in the city and suburbs his entire life.
Hy was a preeminent GIA Gemologist, appraiser, lecturer, and creator of beautiful jewelry for over 50 years. His reputation within the jewelry industry was legendary and impeccable; he sold countless numbers of engagement rings, sight unseen by the buyers, on the basis of his expertise, honesty and integrity alone. His referral base was national in scope, but he treated all his clients like neighbors and family.
He had a lifelong passion for ballroom dancing, photography, and woodwork. He is fondly remembered by family as owning at least 2 or 3 of every tool he thought he would ever need for his projects. Costco is certain to take a financial hit with Hy’s passing. Though he never completed a formal college degree himself, he was extremely proud of the fact that every one of his five children obtained at least one college degree.
Hy is survived by his wife of 35 years, Diane Joseph Feldman, her children, Diana and John, and John’s children; loving father of 5 children, Bruce (Marilyn), Brian (Ursula), Gail Henson, Elizabeth Rice, Daniel (Sabrina) and his 10 grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Virginia Audino, his father, Abraham, mother, Liza, brother, Sol, and sister, Edith.
The family expresses heartfelt thanks to the doctors, nurses and staff at Northwest Oncology & Hematology and JourneyCare Hospice, both of Barrington. They especially acknowledge Hy’s caregiver, Debbie Shrewsberry, who comforted and aided Hy with love and compassion during his last weeks at home.
No services will be held at this time; the family will mourn privately. Donations in Hy’s memory should be made to any charity that benefits animals and/or humanity.